Andy (Gao Yang) is Baptized!

Last night Sister Peterson and I drove to Suwanne for Andy's baptism. This all started when he came into the Employment Center for assistance. The first step in this most important choice. He was so excited....he came through the door from the font and said, "Yes"! He called his parents last night by radio and told them the news and they were supportive. We drove back up today for his confirmation and ordination to the priesthood as a priest. On March 10 he will be going to the temple to do baptisms for the dead. He is in good hands. Have I bragged on Andy before? He is simply stellar and will be returning to Beijing after a year or two to settle there and raise his family where he will be a great contributor to building up the church in China...of that I am sure. He said he would come to Washington for a visit...wouldn't that be nice. My family would love him!

This is the much better entry I wrote in my journal shortly after meeting Andy: Andy is from Beijing China and at 23 has an International MBA. He has received many honors academically, was on a team that built an intelligent car that won an Engineering competition, was the captain of his college basketball team, and was the Outstanding Stadium Volunteer for the Beijing Olympic Games. Besides all of that, he is just a very nice young man. While we were working on his resume and researching career opportunities he asked me twice how he could go about joining our church. I learned he has had missionary discussions before, so I was not sure why he had not been baptized. Andy also asked me if members paid money to the church, so the topic of tithing was discussed. Andy is very concerned about having money to care for his parents but was reassured that sacrificing in faith would secure him the blessings he needed. Saturday night after speaking with the Bishop of the ward he was assigned to geographically, about 30 miles away, I learned he had been taught by the missionaries before he returned to China for a visit; however, the Bishop suggested he attend the YSA Branch. I called the Branch President who said the members of his branch would rally around Andy. We invited Andy to meet us at the YSA Branch Sunday morning and he agreed. By the way, the Branch President frequently travels to China on business. Also in the Branch are the two daughters of Bishop Tam who speaks Cantonese. Long story short, Andy had his first missionary discussion last Thursday evening and will have a second this week with a fellow branch member present who is a returned missionary from Taiwan. Andy says he feels like joining the church is what he should do and is the message he should be sharing with his parents and friends. I like to think that this process will be one that finds him one day playing a pivotal role in the growth of the church in China.

Guatemalan Tamales and Gracias Prayers

This is one of Oscar and Karina's famous homemade tamales, Guatemalan style. Filled w/chicken and a mole sauce that is incredible; but even more incredible than their tamales are these wonderful people. They stopped by the other night for a visit for their "Family Night". They were both baptized as children in Guatemala but now attend another denomination. Oscar sends money back to Guatemala to help build his church at home. Even though they struggle at times, he says he is rich and makes too much not to share. I have given them a Book of Mormon in Spanish along with a subscription to the Liahona in Spanish, and the Friend in English. At the end of their visit last week, Oscar asked if he could pray with us. He offered his prayer in Spanish and we understood every fourth or fifth word - - "gracias". She is going to teach me how to make this delicious dish next Saturday.

Sister Lapin called me Friday....Yang Gao is going to be baptized next Saturday evening in the Sugar Hill Stake Center. I am thrilled! I feel as though he has a great work to perform in China in building Heavenly FAther's kingdom...he is such an incredibly bright and accomplished young man.

Last night Laurinda invited Sister P and I for Indian food as a sort of "going away" celebration for Darlene Anderson. who is leaving tomorrow for San Antonio to finish her last year of medical school. She is the daughter of an Asian woman and a Swedish father. She is the youngest of 9 children and the only one with red hair...all of her siblings have dark hair. Her paternal grandmother thought her mother had been unfaithful, so she tried to drown Darlene in the toilet. Darlene joined the church several years ago and has quite a story to tell. She is a strong woman who is fearlessl

Daryl, the Regional Director of LDS Employment asked me to join him in working with Herbert Lowe, an extremely talented honorable man who is essentially a "hired gun" in Marketing. He has worked nationally and internationally with names like Coke, Pepsi, McDonald's, Athlete's Foot, etc. Since Daryl was out of the office when Herb came in, I was able to do intake and get to know him a bit, then was pleased to join in the meeting he had with Daryl. I learned so much. When you get to his level, you create your job: research companies that have problems you have the expertise to solve, make some friends there (LinkedIn), meet the person with authority to hire, and demonstrate to him you can solve his "pain". Daryl gave me some assignments relative to this, and I am on them!

Received sweet notes from several grandchildren this week, emails from some of my children, and phone calls from others. My sweet friend Pamela and her son Steve sent me a lovely Valentine package. They are coming for Thanksgiving this year which means we will finally meet. She used to be Chad's secretary when he was with Kirkland and Ellis in Chicago...a very special lady. My Christmas cards finally came off my door and now Valentines are up!

I am finding healthy recipes and was surprised to see that the pizza dough I made from high fiber coconut flour, flax meal and herbs was delicious. A must to bake it on parchment however so it can be flipped. Fresh veggies on top and it is a keeper.

Another one of our Career Workshop attendees got a job, plus one other individual. There are promising leads several others are working on. I am grateful.

One Of Those Satisfying Weeks

This has been one of those weeks that make you grateful to be alive simply for small blessings that have come my way: my girls, which includes Bonnie, got together Friday for lunch on the occasion of the three February birthdays, one of my stellar candidates got a job, Lina in Utah translated Adomas' Riauka's letter to me written in Lithuanian, I think I have once and for all overcome something I have been struggling with for my entire mission, I have decided to establish a practice of fasting every four days as that is about as long as I can go before the sturdy natural woman in me begins to make herself known, and I completed my assignment by giving my talk today in Sacrament meeting. I wrote four different talks, the last one begun at 3 this morning, so I am immensely glad that is behind me. Besides the pressure of the responsibility of just saying what Heavenly Father wants me to say, I had to be certain it met all of the criteria I learned in the Bishopric's class last Fast Sunday. Yesterday afternoon I was feeling as though what I had written was all wrong as there was absolutely that deadness of feeling when the spirit is absent, and I couldn't understand why...still don't know, as I thought I would have MORE of the spirit because of overcoming something that has been a challenge to me. When I prayed I received no answer why I was receiving no answer, so there was nothing to do but give it my best effort, go to bed and awake at 6:30 to try again. It felt better in the morning so off I went, and now it is behind me and I am at peace and grateful for all my many blessings.

The Oak Tree

The Oak Tree

by Johnny Ray Ryder Jr.

A mighty wind blew night and day.
It stole the Oak Tree's leaves away.
Then snapped its boughs
and pulled its bark
until the Oak was tired and stark.

But still the Oak Tree held its ground
while other trees fell all around.
The weary wind gave up and spoke,
"How can you still be standing, Oak?"

The Oak Tree said, I know that you
can break each branch of mine in two,
carry every leaf away,
shake my limbs and make me sway.

But I have roots stretched in the earth,
growing stronger since my birth.
You'll never touch them, for you see
they are the deepest part of me.

Until today, I wasn't sure
of just how much I could endure.
But now I've found with thanks to you,
I'm stronger than I ever knew.

Bits and Pieces

We hit the halfway mark of our mission last week

A candidate whose novel I am editing got a thumbs up from her editor

We had a tornado watch last week

I am going to a class Sunday on how to speak in church for my talk the following Sunday

Attending my first BYU Management Society Meeting Friday Night

I learned one of every 19 citizens in Atlanta has a criminal history

I learned this while researching how to help felons gain employment

One came in today, my second in a week

I love my homemade soup made from vegetables I dried from my garden and brought with me

One of my most discouraged candidates is starting a full time job tomorrow

One of my favorite candidates needs to quit her job as the chemicals are making her sick

Elder Ballard said we need to be in a hurry about building up the Kingdom of God

Conner is my first grandchild to serve a mission: The Phillippines

We lose the spirit because we never thoroughly intended to have it

The Spiritual Mind is ultimately the Lord's Mind and through it we have direct access to Him

Senior Missionary Outing to the National Infantry Museum

This is the National Infantry Museum in Ft. Benning, GA where the senior missionaries gathered on Saturday for a tour and outing. It is a magnificent museum which does not glorify war, but rather honors the men of the United States Infantry who have defended the American People for over 240 years. It was a sacred experience to tour the galleries, watch the movies, read the histories and learn of individual acts of heroism performed by many who never returned home. I am humbled and grateful for their service.
This is Iron Mike who stands at the entrance of the National Infantry Museum. The infantry motto is, "Follow Me". "The Last Hundred Yards" is a meaningful term to the infantry, as after the planes, helicopters and tanks do their work, it is the responsibility of the infantry to go the last hundred yards and capture the ground to win the battle.


You may be wondering why I included this photo....it captures sacred soil. In front of the parade stand is a grassy field that originally had soil brought in from every battle site where the US Infantry had fought over the last 240 plus years. It was then seeded and is as you see it today, so when these young infantry soldiers graduate from Ft. Benning and march on this field, they are literally on sacred ground where their forefathers fought.
Sister Peterson and I at the Fife and Drum upstairs in the National Infantry Museum at Fort Benning, Georgia. We had a lovely time visiting over lunch with the Ingalsbes, Smalleys, Despains, Combs, Gibsons, and Scotts. President and Sister Satterfield were both sick and unable to join us. They were missed.

Derek Came A Visiting

Friday night at midnight Derek flew into Atlanta to spend the weekend with me. He is interviewing for a residency program and had been to Arkansas and North Dakota....a respite in Atlanta, and flies out tomorrow for Rochester and Albany, New York. It has been wonderful having him here. He changed the overhead light bulb in my closet, something I have not climbed up to take the time to do. Had a look at my dark dashboard but wary of removing the dashboard cover to replace the bulb. I can make do with a flashlight and don't do much driving at night anyway. I made enchiladas and guacamole for lunch and then beef stroganoff on Sunday....two of his favorites. Saturday dinner was Hibachi Grill....fresh and plentiful....knew he would enjoy. At church he recognized a med student he had classes with at BYU. In Nebraska at church he recognized Ben Davis from the Richland Stake. The world is a small place when you are a member of the Church. Satisfying! For Christmas, Larry Fuller, a fellow temple worker whose wife I used to visit teach at home, sent me Joseph Smith's Lectures on Faith along with some questions about the text, which I am studying. You think you have a fairly good understanding of "Faith" and then you read something like this and see you are just a babe. Also read Larry Barkdull's article, "Faith - An Intelligent Force": http://www.ldsmag.com/church/article/9156?ac=1 which took Faith far beyond the definition of it's being a belief in things not seen, which are true....So grateful to learn. Friday I got an upbeat email from a candidate wanting to look into schooling. Tonight he wrote, devastated he has lost his job and has three daughters and another on the way. If I didn't have complete faith and trust in Heavenly Father and the SAvior and their promises, I could not handle the pathos of this missionary call, but God does not lie, and the blessings are there through faith, obedience and hard work. Absolutely true!